And just for good measure, the joke Fr. Jim said at the end of Mass - A husband went to the doctor with his wife. The doctor pulled the wife aside and told her: your husband is sick and he needs your help. You will need to make him a big hearty bfast every morning, and of course a well-balanced lunch and dinner that is served right when he gets home from work. You should not burden him with household chores, he should rest and relax as much as possible. In the car on the way home the husband asked the wife what the doctor had told her. The wife replied: You're going to die.